It's a constant fight, on a daily basis, to remember that Jesus can and will sustain me (1 Cor. 1:4-8). Maybe it was previous situations, when I was "of the world", that brought me into such hardships. I'm just not sure where I got this overwhelming need try to be and seem to feel self-sustaining. In Proverbs 3:7 (ESV), "Be not wise in your own eyes, fear the LORD, and turn away from evil." This is how much God wants me to rely on myself. The song, "Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus" is a great reminder of Colossians 3:17 (ESV) "And whatever you do in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." Clearly you can't make wrong decisions in the name of the Lord, that's not what being in submission to your Lord and Master entails.
Remember those bracelets that had "W.W.J.D." inscribed on them? I used to feel that it really doesn't matter what Jesus WOULD do, it's all about what Jesus DID do. Now if we know what Jesus DID do, can't we know what Jesus WOULD do? Sometimes you just have to eat your words.
So you were forced to make a decision and you inadvertently made the wrong one, now what? Problems seem so magnified in the middle of what feels like a major crisis. David reminds us in Psalms 31:3-4 (ESV) For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name's sake you lead me and guide me; (4) you take me out of the net they have hidden for me, for you are my refuge.
It doesn't take a neurosurgeon to know that life comes at all of us at lightning speeds, but David says that when we have been overwhelmed with the net of the world, God will be our refuge. That might not make the decision you made anymore right, but just like my G.P.S. always tells me, "re-calculating." Yes, you will have to deal with the consequences of that decision. Nobody can do that for you or remind you not to make that same mistake tomorrow.
What will help you become the kind of Christian who is able to competently make those decisions is when you do what Acts 2:41-42 (ESV) says, "So those who received his word were baptized, and there were added that day about three thousand souls. (42) And they devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers."
I pray that God continues to help us receive His Word as well as devote ourselves to those divine blue-prints the Holy Spirit left us through the apostles. Then decisions won't really be decisions, it will be a lifestyle and W.W.J.D. will be the same as W.W.(whatever your first initial is here).D..
